Thanks for the information. I ended up getting a Scangauge II since it was quick and easy to set up, albeit a pricier solution. There were some good reviews and setup guidance on some of the other forums as well. I like your solution too, I just waited a little too long.
I ended up running around 190 +/- 5 the whole trip down the highways and even in the mountains towing a 3500 lb. trailer and load.
I kept it in S4 and used the ECT and it cruised along nicely at about 2900-3000 RPM running around 67 MPH.
Thanks again.