I see your post is a couple of years old, but I figured it's worth jumping in, especially if someone else is facing a similar decision. The Rough Country lift kit with adjustable vortex coils and reservoirs sounds like a serious upgrade! Given that you off-road and also use your Tacoma as a daily driver, it sounds like you're investing in versatility.
In the spirit of fun and decisions, have you ever tried using a
d20 roller for minor choices? It's interesting to think of how a little randomness could affect something even as important as vehicle mods.
If you're still around, I'd love to hear how the lift kit has been treating you these past years!